Are there any signs that indicate a person isn`t really who they say they are? Yes! There are many clues that you should be on the lookout for, including: 1. How is this person in public? Is he/she different in private? If you are seeing two differnt people, watch out. 2. How do they respond under pressure or stress? Situations such as these will often relieve a person's true colors. 3. Are they fairly predictable?Observe them with others and in as many different situations as possible. If they are the same 80 percent of the time, that is their dominant character. If they are unpredictable, you should be concerned. 4. How do they treat their family? You will be part of the family if you marry him/her. He/she will probably treat you how he/she treats his/her family. Keep your eyes open for good and bad behavior traits and never ignore the negative ones because you think you are in love.