Is this relationship right for you? How can you tell? Listen to your inner voice; it usually speaks the truth. If you feel happy and confident most of the time, chances are the relationship is working for you. If you constantly feeling annoyed, depressed or put down, then it's time to do something about it. Talk to your partner, seek counseling or move on. Remember, if you don't feel good about yourself in the relationship, then the relationship isn't the one for you.