Ever feel like a man is trying to get you into bed before you've had time to develop a relationship? You want to keep them interested, but you'd like to delay having sex for at least a little while longer. Remember, good guys will not push for sex and then disappear if you don´t give it to them. If he cannot respect that desire, he isn´t worth your time and effort. Sex isn´t something that should be taken lightly. Once others know your standards, only men who have similar values as you have will want to be with you.