You want a boyfriend who you can talk to and share your thoughts and feelings with...but you've discovered that kind of man is hard to find. It's not so much men's fault as it is society's; we simply have not raised a large percentage of men who are comfortable doing so. Even for those men who are more willing to talk, it takes them time to feel comfortable sharing their thoughts and feelings with women. Other guys simply don't dare. Still others say too much. The most important thing is to never give up on your desire to find someone who can talk with you.