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Making the first move may sound daunting until you remember what the first move is: It only entails talking to someone. If you see or know someone that you are interested in, talk to them. Make light conversation, and listen to what they have to say. Most people, even if they have no interest in you at first glance, will talk to you. Gauge the conversation: is the person interesting? Do they seem interested in you? If so, try and see if they want to see you again. If you don't feel comfortable about asking for their number, then offer yours; often they will reciprocate. If you get a call, great. If not, don't worry; sometimes people don't click after the first meeting, and there are always more interesting people out there.
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|Jennifer Mathes, Ph.D.|