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If you're in a bar and you want to send a girl a drink as a means of letting her know that you find her attractive and that you'd like to get to know her, you need to follow a couple of simple rules.
1. Send the drink over, but don't sit there and stare at her or immediately go up to her table. Wait for the waiter to bring her drink and when she looks over at you give her a nod and a smile. Wait a few minutes to see if she approaches you.
2. If she doesn't approach you, feel free to go over and confidently introduce yourself and ask if you can sit down. If she says yes, sit down and begin a conversation. If she says no, walk away and forget about it.
|Jennifer Mathes, Ph.D.|