Love: Is It Enough To Marry

Here are a few questions to ask yourself about your love to see if it is enough to marry. 1) Do you enjoy his/her company (really enjoy it)? 2) Are you proud of him/her in company? 3) In your mind how does he/she fare in competition with others? 4) Is he/she personally attractive to you? 5) Is there more than physical attraction? 6) Do you need his/her physical presence to keep you enthusiastic about him/her? 7) Do you love him/her as a person or do you merely like your feelings about him/her? 8) Do you have serious doubts about your love? 9) Do you love him/her in your calmer moments? 10)Are you in love with him/her or what he/she can give you? 11) Over what matters and how frequently do you have conflict? 12) Have you found a satisfactory way to settle conflicts? 13) How do you weather a crisis together? 14) Are you willing to make concessions or do you expect him/her to make them all? 15) Do you forgive, tolerate, accept, overlook, or resent his/her faults? 16) How much do think of his/her welfare--can you set yours aside for his/her? 17) Do you think in terms of WE? How do you think you will feel about him/her five, ten, or fifteen years from now? 18) Do you have common interests and goals? 19) Does he/she wear well with you? 20) Has enough time elapsed for you to tell how you really feel? 21) Are you attracted to him/her for what he/she is or for what you read into him/her?