Sometimes after we have been through a divorce, we feel like no one could ever find us attractive again. Often this occurs because our previous spouse was verbally abusive and told us that we weren't attractive. If you have bought such a line, take a step back and look at what you have to offer. An ex-spouse may have told you that you would never find someone, but don't believe it. First, believe in yourself again. Then, work on your physical and mental well-being so that you have something of substance to offer someone new. If you work to make yourself the best you can be, then you can move forward with confidence.