Have you ever asked someone why they are dating you? If you haven't, you might want to start. It will tell you many things about them. You will learn what they like about you. You will also learn what the person you are dating values in relationships. If they like your personality and the way you make them laugh, then you know what they would want you do to more of if your relationship became more serious. In reality, by asking someone why they are dating you, you are gathering more information about them and learning what they like at the same time. If you like their response your relationship will probably grow. If you don't like their response, you don't have to waste time dating someone who doesn't like you for the right reasons.