How can you "get a girl?" First, stop using the phrase. It has a derogatory meaning and most girls don't like it. Second, figure out what type of girl you want to like you. Typically men and women date people who are similar to them (in looks, confidence, economic status, religious beliefs and values). Next, it is also a good idea to seek someone who you are attracted to. But the most important way to make a girl like you is to learn who you are. Then you will be confident in developing healthy relationships. The most attractive people are the ones who know who they are and treat others with respect.