Kissing means different things to different people. So before you pucker up and smooch on your first date, be certain you know what kissing means to you. You might also ask yourself why you want to kiss your date -- is it because you feel that form of affection for him or her? Or is it because you feel pressure from society to make that move? Remember, kissing sends a message to your date who may interpret that kiss in a way you did not intend.